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Mental Toughness

What happens when your plans go out the window

Published March 2020 by Trevor. Updated July 2022.

Over the years, I’ve had people say to me you learn a lot from the mountains. They teach you perseverance, resilience, adversity, to think outside the square and plans A, B, C, D and the rest. All relevant in today’s global settings with the COVID-19 situation when your plans go out the window.

A bit of background. My partner and myself were due to finish our project in 2020 (Project Base8000), to become the first non mountaineers to trek to all of the base camps of the world’s 14 highest mountains. Having already completed six, expeditions were organised to head back to Nepal in Spring, Pakistan in July and August and then Nepal again in October to round out the 14. Well, that has now been well and truly thrown out the window – for now at least.

When your plans go out the window

Perseverance

So, a little obstacle has now presented itself, called COVID-19. My first reaction when we got the news that our expeditions might be called off was @#*%. When Australia closed its borders along with many other countries around the world, then put a total travel ban in place for its citizens, other language may have come to mind.

But hang on, we have a plan. The plan hasn’t changed, just the timing. So it’s back to plan B.

Nangpa La Glacier near Cho Oyu

Resilience

I thought about the hard times in my life and how I dealt with those and adapted. All the set backs. Being rejected. Waiting for your name to be called out when they pick a team, only to be standing on the sidelines watching. Hopes and dreams shattered. My country up bringing taught me how to roll with the punches, deal with droughts, living pay-to-pay, work harder and get up and bounce back.

Resilience also taught me how to be mentally strong, be positive – visualise the future and block out the bad. Easier said than done I know, especially when we are bombarded constantly by the 24/7 news cycle and social media.

Blizzard
Battling the blizzard on our Winter Skills Course (Photo: 360 Expeditions)

Adversity

The hardships, challenges and misfortune. I wouldn’t be the only one that’s been through it. Sometimes it wasn’t easy. Having a close circle of friends around you to provide support helped. Looking up in awe at the face of an 8,000m plus mountain reminds you that there are bigger things in life.

Those mountains are calling – I want to go now, please!

Onwards and upwards.

Trevor

PS. You might like to read some of our other posts relating to mental toughness when your plans go out the window:

  • Self-Discovery
  • One Big Adventure – how the challenge of navigating your way through a global pandemic has remarkable similarities to going on an adventure
  • Mera Peak – adversity and resilience
  • Courage to Face Adversity
  • Discover Your Perseverance
  • 12 Tips to Build Mental Toughness For Your Next Trek
  • Adventure Bingo: Things To Do While Waiting For Your Next Adventure
Adventurers Path in a Pandemic

One Big Adventure

Published March 2020 by Emma. Updated October 2021.

Turns out now, we’re all on one big adventure together.

By some strange coincidence the challenge of navigating your way through a global pandemic has remarkable similarities to going on an adventure. We can apply some of the strategies we use on a ‘normal’ adventure, like trekking, to help us succeed on this one.

Firstly, you might ask, what on earth are the similarities with trekking? Let’s look at the stages of an Adventure Project, as we like to call it…

THINK

Be careful what you wish for! Perhaps this year you’ve been thinking about doing something different – to see what you’re capable of or to get some new perspectives on life.

Then a new challenge presents itself. OK, in terms of a trek you do have some choice, but either way – you think about it, you learn a bit more and then tackle it head on.

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PREPARE

Then there’s the “oh sh*t” moment. What on earth have I signed up for, or in the case of a pandemic – what on earth are we facing? We can’t assume it’s a walk in the park – we need to prepare ourselves!

  • have we got enough gear or supplies?
  • are we fit and healthy enough, and how do we stay that way?
  • have we got the mental toughness to see it through? There will be uncertainty, hardships, emotions
Trekking and travelling to Nepal despite the Coronavirus

GO

Your adventure is underway. You’re going to experience new things. Your world is turned upside down. If we liken it to a Himalayan trek …

  • you’re focussed on the basics of survival – food, sleep, and getting through each day. Maszlo’s Hierarchy of Needs comes into play – the basics are important before anything else
  • you’re sharply aware of good hygiene and staying healthy
  • your priorities come into clear focus – what’s important and what’s not. In some ways, life gets more simple
  • in isolation, you make the most of what you’ve got with you
  • you appreciate the small things – a smile, a pretty flower
  • while the big things give you perspective, whether they’re mountains or the threat of a virus
  • you feel more connected with nature – the world around you is more in focus
  • everyone’s in it together and we all have to pitch in and help

REFLECT

At the end of your adventure you need time to recover. You come away with some new insights – what did you learn about yourself and about others? What would you do differently next time?

One thing leads to another. As this project finishes, what will you do next? What new opportunities have appeared?

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CONCLUSION

Yes you can succeed in this adventure. It takes some time to work out what it means for you, how you’ll prepare and how you’ll cope. But we’re all in this together and we all have something to offer.

In the meantime, read our post on What Happens When Your Plans Go Out the Window. and play Adventure Bingo: Things To Do While You’re Waiting For Your Next Adventure. You might also like our other resources on self-discovery. Or this article we found that compares Living With/Through the Pandemic to Climbing Everest.

Adventurers Path in a Pandemic

TREK READY: Mental Toughness

Published January 2018 by Cut Lunch Adventures. Updated December 2025.

How to build mental toughness for your next trek – use this self-assessment and action plan to help get you there.

This is PART 3 of the 3-part TREK READY series, based on our TREK READY TEST – either do the test to get a score, or simply follow the questions below. For a printable version of this comprehensive guide you can download the YAK PACK.

We’re primarily targeting multi-day treks which require extra mental toughness however the topics could also apply to day hikes. We can’t promise this covers all your personal needs but we’ve done our best based on our own experiences.

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In this post
  1. Visualisation
  2. Living Conditions
  3. High Altitude
  4. Systems
  5. Resilience
  6. USEFUL LINKS
Everest Base Camp Trek

Visualisation

Have you visualised or thought through what your trek experience will be like and how you might face challenges along the way? (select one)

(a) I’ve not given it too much thought – I’d prefer to be surprised!

(a) I’ve not given it too much thought – I’d prefer to be surprised!

  • Take the time to mentally prepare as well as physically.
  • Minimise stress by knowing that you’re prepared – get your gear ready and be trek fit. Don’t stress about things you can’t control. 
  • Research the trek itself and the country – whats the experience going to be like? What are the culture differences? Watch YouTube or read our posts on different treks around the world.
  • Learn from others – ask the trekking company you’re booked with for advice. Talk to other people who have done similar treks. Ask us!

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(b) A little bit, but I’m sure there’s more I could do.

(b) A little bit, but I’m sure there’s more I could do.

  • Really see yourself there – get into the headspace of what you’re about to do and how you’ll do it e.g. waking up, meals, packing up , trekking, living at high altitude, looking after health and hygiene, nighttime and sleeping etc.
  • It’s easy to think about what you’re looking forward to, but don’t forget to think about the challenges you might face, or what you’ve found hard on previous treks or challenges – what will it be like and what could help you? What’s different to what you’ve done before? Hope for the best, plan for the worst.
  • Get into the zone and be inspired by reading books or watching movies about other adventurers – including the more extreme adventures of mountaineers and rock climbers and how they coped with hardship and challenges in the wilderness.
  • Read our post on mental toughness.
  • Encourage others – set up a group Facebook page to encourage and motivate others who are going with you, communicate updates via messages, emails or social media.
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(c) Yes I’ve done all I can think of, and it’s constantly in my mind.

(c) Yes I’ve done all I can think of, and it’s constantly in my mind.

  • Give yourself plenty of time to pack before you go – it takes longer than you think to get your gear list together and optimise your packing and the weight.
  • Ease yourself in – we find that flying into a different country and starting your trek the next day day can add to your stress levels. If you can make the time its worth flying in an extra day or two before you start so that you can get used to the local culture and environment, plus have plenty of time to fine tune your packing and buy any last minute things. Then once you meet up with your group and start your trek you are in a good mindset and ready to go.
  • Get amongst the adventure community e.g. attend trekking presentations or events that your local trekking gear store or trekking company might hold
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Eco campsite on EBC trek
Eco campsite on Everest Base Camp trek

Living Conditions

Have you thought about how you’ll handle the different living conditions on your trek (type of accommodation, bathroom/toilet facilities or lack of, etc)? (select one)

(a) Nope – she’ll be right mate.

(a) Nope – she’ll be right mate.

  • Find out what to expect from your trek company or by researching that trek – what sort of accommodation will you have e.g. huts, lodges, stand-up tents, small alpine tents if you’re high up on a mountain? Watch YouTube or read our posts on different treks around the world.
  • Be prepared for basic living conditions – it can take awhile to get used to the ‘hardships’ and lack of hygiene compared with what you’re used to at home. Is there anything you can try out or experience beforehand e.g. sleeping in a tent where there is limited space to organise your things, it’s not well lit at night and not easy to move around.
  • If you’re going on a long trek then try out some shorter multi-day hikes in the months leading up to it so that you can find your routine and get used to it e.g. the Routeburn Track or Milford Track in New Zealand or Three Capes Track in Australia. Work out solutions to anything that stresses you out or makes life not so enjoyable.
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(b) Sort of – I’ve read the trip notes but I’m not sure if I’ve really taken it all on board.

(b) Sort of – I’ve read the trip notes but I’m not sure if I’ve really taken it all on board.

  • If the bathroom/toilet facilities en route and in camp are going to be non-existent or very basic, you’re just going to have to get used to it. Build up your leg muscles by doing squats!
  • Showering – there are usually limited places to shower so it’s not uncommon to go 5-10 days without one. After the first couple of days you’ll just get used to it. You might have washing water available but in any case take lots of wet wipes as a great substitute. Have clothes for hiking and clothes for the evening so that you’re not wearing sweaty clothes all night which can give you a chill. Keep thinking – that shower you have at the end of your trek will be the best shower you ever had!!
  • Also get used to the idea of wearing the same clothes for a few days without washing them – it’ll save on weight and you really don’t need clean clothes every day! Woollen t-shirts and tops are great as they don’t smell too bad after a few days of wear. Take quick-drying clothes, especially underwear, if you do want to do laundry or in the event you’re soaked with rain.
  • Cold management – work out what you’ll need to keep warm during the day and also at night, especially if you really feel the cold. Layers of clothing are great as you can easily adjust to the conditions. Filling your water bottle up with boiling water makes a great hot water bottle at nighttime.
  • Have a few home comforts e.g. your favourite snacks from home, or foot powder – at the end of a long day it’s a luxury to clean your aching feet and then sprinkle foot powder on – your feet will thank you for it! 
  • If you’re female – here are a few more tips for females.
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(c) Yup – I’ve done this type of trek before and/or I’m aware of what to expect.

(c) Yup – I’ve done this type of trek before and/or I’m aware of what to expect.

  • What could you potentially enhance? e.g. better lighting to make finding your gear in a poorly lit tent, update your music playlists, podcasts and e-books
  • Stay healthy – there’s nothing worse than being unwell when you’re away from home, and especially when you know you’ve got to wake up and continue trekking the next day. So do what you can to prevent illness e.g. drinking bottled/boiled water, using hand sanitiser, eating well-cooked food. If starting from Kathmandu, wear a buff or scarf over your mouth if you’re walking around the streets prior to your trek due to help prevent illness  due to the dust pollution.
  • The people dynamics of your team is also important in making your trek enjoyable – think about how you’ll handle different types of people in your group
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Ama Dablam High Altitude

High Altitude

If you’ll be trekking at high altitude, are you aware of altitude sickness, what you can do to try and avoid it, or what you should do if you get any symptoms? (select one)

(a) No – I need to check what altitudes I’ll be trekking to, and scrub up on what I need to know.

(a) No – I need to check what altitudes I’ll be trekking to, and scrub up on what I need to know.

  • Find out from your trekking itinerary what altitudes you’ll be trekking to.
  • If you’re trekking at altitudes of 2500m+ (8000ft+) then build your knowledge about high altitude – what it is, how it can affect you, how to trek at high altitude. Learn as much as you can about Acute Mountain Sickness (AMS) so that you know what it is, how to take precautions, the symptoms and what to do. If you’re on a self-guided trek or trekking alone then this is even more critical to your survival. Read our High Altitude Trekking Tips.
  • However don’t let it put you off your trek either – by being armed with the right information and support you can ensure your trek is an enjoyable one.
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(b) Not sure – I should probably find out more.

(b) Not sure – I should probably find out more.

  • Read our High Altitude Trekking Tips on and learn from our experiences of trekking in the Himalayas. 
  • There are many online resources that are worth reading on high altitude such as posts from the Himalayan Rescue Association (himalayanrescue.org) or this one on Understanding Altitude by Expedition Base.
  • If you’re on a guided trek then ensure your trekking company or guide is well experienced and reputable in managing trekkers at high altitude – what information information do they provide you? How many rest/acclimatisation days have they built into the itinerary? What do they recommend to both prevent and also treat symptoms of altitude sickness? What emergency equipment do they have e.g. hyperbaric (Gamow) bags?
  • Consult your doctor before you go, so that they can recommend anything specific to help your own situation. You should also ask about how you might be impacted by any medications you might take for high altitude while trekking. For example – could you be allergic to any medication? If you’re already on other medication, would it have any impact on that or should you take different medications at different times of day so that they don’t react or impact each other?
  • Check your travel insurance with reference to high altitude – some companies may not insure you over certain altitudes, or not for certain activities. Most trekking companies will ask that you have insurance to cover medical evacuations. Yes we’ve experienced a medevac – read our post about Mera Peak – when things don’t go to plan.
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(c) Yes – I know what to expect from reading about it, talking to others or from past experience.

(c) Yes – I know what to expect from reading about it, talking to others or from past experience.

  • Read our High Altitude Trekking Tips on to refresh your memory and ensure you’re well prepared.
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Porters packing up
Porters packing up and getting ready for the day’s hike

Systems

Have you got your systems worked out? e.g. your morning routine – how you’ll wash, get dressed and packed up, how you’ll prepare meals (if not supplied by a trek company), how you’ll sort out your things on arriving at camp and getting ready for a good night’s sleep etc. The more you can practice or think through before you go, the easier it will be. (select one)

(a) Huh what systems? I’ll figure it out as I go.

(a) Huh what systems? I’ll figure it out as I go.

  • One big difference between a trek and a sightseeing holiday is that it pays not to assume that you’ll just figure things out along the way. Once you’re out in the wilderness it’s too late. Life is very basic and you’re focused on surviving – trekking, eating and sleeping – especially at altitude. You don’t want the added stress of working things out once you’re on the trail, or realising that you really need something extra.
  • Think about what you’ll be doing throughout each day and what’s going to be important e.g. getting up and ready for breakfast on time, having your gear packed and ready to go, going to the bathroom/toilet etc. Then think about how you’ll do it.
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(b) Getting there – there are possibly a few things I should think through or practice.

(b) Getting there – there are possibly a few things I should think through or practice.

  • Create your own systems e.g. how you’ll organise your gear so that its easy to find – both in your daypack as well as in your accommodation.
  • Mornings – how will you decide what to wear and access it easily – or can you organise it the night before? 
  • Washing – how will you wash yourself, and optionally – your clothes?
  • Evenings – have your clothes organised and nearby in case you need to get up in the night
  • Technology such as mobile phones, cameras, Go-Pro’s – do they have a good waterproof case? Do you need them on a lanyard around your neck or wrist? Whats the best way to have them easily accessible while you’re hiking? Will you need to put your technology and batteries inside your sleeping bag with you each night so that the cold temperature doesn’t run the batteries down?
  • In the freezing cold – will you need to work out how to get your water bottle or snacks while your gloves are still on? Will your water bladder pipe freeze, in which case which water bottle will you use? Will you need to store water in a bottle inside your jacket to prevent it freezing?
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(c) All sorted – been there and done it all before.

(c) All sorted – been there and done it all before.

  • Doublecheck – is there anything different about this trek that you need to think about, compared with others you’ve been on?
  • Are there any systems you’ve used in the past which need refining or need new solutions? There are plenty of online sites with good ideas for solutions.
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Medevac helicopter
Pretty tough if your trek ends early and you’re medevac’ed out

Resilience

How’s your resilience? How will you cope when things get tough or don’t go to plan? What will motivate you to keep going? Have you learnt from other experiences? (select one)

(a) Could be an issue – either I haven’t really thought about it or I know I react badly when things go wrong.

(a) Could be an issue – either I haven’t really thought about it or I know I react badly when things go wrong.

  • Be aware of the importance of resilience – the ability to bounce back – when you’re in unusual, uncomfortable or difficult circumstances in the wilderness. How you react and cope could mean the difference between a successful and enjoyable trek and a bad experience. Not just for yourself but for others too.
  • How well do you cope with hardship? Are you adaptable?
  • How well do you relate to or help others when things go wrong?
  • How well do deal with change? On a trek or in the mountains, plans can change at a moments notice depending on the weather. Even if the trek is not impacted, you might be delayed and miss your flight home. So have a plan in place in case you need to change your itinerary.
  • What might you need to work on to help you manage? e.g. calmness, adaptability, flexibility, steeliness, resolve, a positive attitude?
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(b) Not entirely sure – I’ve coped with challenges before but not sure what I’ll need for this trek.

(b) Not entirely sure – I’ve coped with challenges before but not sure what I’ll need for this trek.

  • Do your research – read up on others’ experiences on the trek – what challenges did they have? How would you cope in those situations? Check out our Mera Peak trek for an example of when things don’t go to plan!
  • What challenging situations can you draw on from your experience that might be useful?
  • Think of strategies you can use to cope if things go wrong – hope for the best but plan for the worst.
  • When things get tough what motivates you to keep going? How can you encourage others and help them too?
  • If you’re going with family or friends then discuss how you can motivate and support each other in challenging situations
  • In addition to coping at the time of an event, don’t forget that certain things have a lasting impact which is a real mental challenge to get over. For example if you can’t complete your trek (like our Mera Peak trek) – sometimes you just have to live through it and accept it, learn from it and try again another day – the mountains will always be there.
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(c) Pretty good – I’m very motivated to succeed, I’ve discussed the challenges with others, and I’ve coped with tough treks or situations before.

(c) Pretty good – I’m very motivated to succeed, I’ve discussed the challenges with others, and I’ve coped with tough treks or situations before.

  • Remind yourself of your ability to bounce back, and how you’ve coped with tough situations before
  • Keep working on your strategies to de-stress when things go wrong – in your daily life not just for the trek. If it helps, use practices like meditation or yoga.
  • Notice what stresses you out in daily life, how you react. Can you adjust how you react to become more resilient? Don’t stress about things you can’t control. See our post on mental toughness.
  • Remember to look after yourself after your trek. Your body can take up to a month to recuperate after a long trek, especially one at high altitude. 
  • Lastly, the good thing about treks is that you usually come back with new perspectives on life and even more resilience!!
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USEFUL LINKS

Read our full post on Mental Toughness, which includes Building Your Resilience, and a few more tips for females.

Read about What Happens When Your Plans Go Out the Window.

For more information on high altitude see our High Altitude Trekking Tips, or go to Himalayan Rescue Association (himalayanrescue.org) or this one on Understanding Altitude by Expedition Base.

Read about our high altitude treks – Everest Base Camp, Everest Circuit and the Cho La, Mera Peak – when things don’t go to plan.

See our Fun Stuff page for things to do which relate to trekking and mountain culture.

See our posts on different treks around the world.

Get the YAK PACK – for a printable version of this comprehensive guide.

Download the Trek Ready Cheat Sheet

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12 Tips To Build Mental Toughness For Your Next Trek

Published April 2017 by Emma. Updated September 2021.

If you’re going out into the mountains or the wilderness on a long-distance trek then you’ll need to mentally prepare and build your mental toughness.

“Mountain climbing is all about being comfortable in uncomfortable places” – Sir Edmund Hillary

They say that 80% of meeting a challenge is mental and only 20% is physical. While there is plenty written about physical training for a trek, I’ve never managed to find much about how to mentally prepare. So here goes – this is what we’ve learnt to do to build our mental toughness and reduce stress for our treks in the Himalayas.

Table of Contents

  1. Minimise Stress – Be Prepared
  2. Visualise – See Yourself There
  3. Be Prepared for Basic Living Conditions
  4. Ease Yourself In
  5. Create Your Own Systems
  6. Make Night-Time Enjoyable
  7. Stay Healthy
  8. Have a Few Home Comforts
  9. Prevent Nasty Surprises – Test Everything First
  10. Survive at High Altitude
  11. Build Your Resilience
  12. If You’re Female, A Few More Tips
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snowy conditions on the trail - mentally prepare for each trek you do
Mentally prepare for each trek you do.

Some background first. We always come back from a trek having learnt a few things about what worked well and what didn’t. Two treks stand out for me – Mera Peak and Everest Base Camp. I learnt that its not just the big things that can get you down, it can also be a series of small things. For example try adjusting to life in a tent, in pouring rain, with a bad headache, being sick, your gear not working properly, not-so-great toilet facilities, and leeches stuck to your leg. If I’d had to cope with any of these on it’s own I’d have been fine, but combined together it just made life hard – mentally.

1. Minimise Stress – be prepared

One big difference between a trek and a sightseeing holiday is that it pays not to assume that you’ll just figure things out along the way. Once you’re out in the wilderness it’s too late. Life is very basic and you’re focused on surviving – trekking, eating and sleeping – especially at altitude. You don’t want the added stress of working things out once you’re on the trail. At high altitude, everything is an effort to do. Brushing your teeth, packing your bag, getting dressed … requires collecting your energy, real focus and concentration. There are more than enough challenges to contend with. So do yourself a favour and ensure you’re prepared – physically, mentally and with the right gear. Give yourself plenty of time to pack before you go. It takes longer than you think to get your gear list together and optimise your packing and the weight.

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Mentally prepare for your trek through visualisation.

2. Visualise – see yourself there

  • It’s easy to think about what you’re looking forward to. But don’t forget to think about the challenges you might face, or what you’ve found hard on previous treks or challenges. What will it be like and what could help you? This is a key factor in building mental toughness for your trek.
  • learn from others – ask the trekking company you’re booked with for advice. Search YouTube for the hike you’ll be going on, or for related topics such as the city you’ll arrive in or tips for packing etc. Talk to other people who have done similar hikes. Browse our Cut Lunch Adventures website! Get into the headspace of what you’re about to do.
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Mentally prepare for your trek by accepting different living conditions.

3. Be prepared for basic living conditions

(not that I’m a princess but it does take awhile to get used to the hardships and lack of hygiene!)

  • sleeping in tents with limited space to organise your things, not well lit at night, not easy to move around especially if you can’t stand up. If you’re going on a long trek then try out some shorter multi-day hikes in the months leading up to it. This will allow you to find your routine and get used to it. Work out solutions to anything that stresses you out or makes life not so enjoyable
  • the toilet facilities en route and in camp can be either non-existent or very basic. You’re just going to have to get used to it. Build your leg muscles up by doing squats!
  • lack of showers/baths can also be a challenge, especially when you arrive at camp hot and sweaty from the day’s trek. Wet wipes will be your best friend. So will woollen clothes – which don’t stink after wearing them for days on end. At least with no mirrors and with everyone else in the same boat – you’ll get over it pretty quick. That hot shower you have when you get back to civilisation will be the best one you ever had!
Mentally prepare for your trek by easing yourself into the new surroundings.

4. Ease yourself in

  • we find that flying into a different country and starting your trek the next day day can add to your stress levels. Especially if this is the first day of your holiday after a manic week at work. If you can make the time its worth flying in an extra day or two before you start. That way you can get used to the local culture and environment. Plus, have plenty of time to fine tune your packing and buy any last minute things. Then once you meet up with your group and start your trek you are in a good mindset and ready to go.
Mentally prepare for your trek by creating your own systems.

5. Create your own systems

  • you take for granted at home how many things you’ve fine-tuned so that you operate efficiently and without having to think. On a trek suddenly there are all these new things to figure out. For example, your morning routine to get up, dressed and packed (all before breakfast). Or your evening routine to wash, and get things ready for sleeping. The more you can practice or think through before you go, the easier it will be.
Eco campsite on EBC trek - Mentally prepare for your trek by making nighttime enjoyable.
Mentally prepare for your trek by making nighttime enjoyable.

6. Make night-time enjoyable

For me, the trekking is great but the evenings are the biggest challenge. Trying to find your gear in a poorly lit tent, and going to bed early because its dark but you’re not sleepy.

  • in addition to your head torch, take some good LED lights or a lantern for your tent. I found that by facing the light upwards to the roof spreads the light better with less shadows.
  • have your clothes organised and nearby in case you need to get up in the night
  • have music and podcasts to listen to if you can’t sleep.
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Mentally prepare for your trek by staying healthy.

7. Stay healthy

There’s nothing worse than being unwell when you’re away from home, and especially when you know you’ve got to wake up and continue trekking the next day. So do what you can to:

  • prevent illness e.g. drinking bottled/boiled water, using hand sanitiser, eating well-cooked food
  • address any known issues you have e.g. I often get headaches from muscle tension so I sought advice from a local physiotherapist for some exercises to do, plus I’ve been practicing carrying heavy packs and monitoring my posture
  • be self-sufficient – take some medications with you in addition to your first aid kit. A lot of travel medicine clinics sell travel packs containing antibiotics, hydralytes and tablets for nausea and diarrhoea. They can also supply Diamox if you’re going to high altitude. However from my experience I’d only take it if absolutely necessary. Otherwise you’ll be going to the toilet far too often!
Mentally prepare for your trek by taking a few home comforts.

8. Have a few home comforts

  • if you can afford the extra weight, its nice to have a few treats to look forward to e.g.
  • your favourite snacks from home
  • foot powder – at the end of a long day it’s a luxury to clean your aching feet and then sprinkle foot powder on. Your feet will thank you for it!
  • filling your water bottle up with boiling water makes a great hot water bottle at nighttime.
Mentally prepare for your trek by preventing nasty surprises.

9. Prevent nasty surprises – test everything first

  • all your gear, especially your boots and backpack
  • all the food you’re taking with you. Don’t buy special things for the trek that you’d not like to eat at home or that you haven’t tried first. Don’t assume that you’re suddenly going to like it on your trek when you’re really hungry and need some motivation.
Mentally prepare for your trek by understanding high altitude.
Mentally prepare for your trek by understanding high altitude.

10. Survive at high altitude

You can’t easily acclimatise before you go. However there are certainly steps you can take to improve your chances of success in the mountains.

Click here for our High Altitude Trekking Tips.

Mentally prepare for your trek by building your resilience.
Mentally prepare for your trek by building your resilience.

11. Build your resilience

  • think about how you’ll cope when things get tough. What motivates you to keep going? How can you encourage others and help them too? What has helped you in the past to build mental toughness e.g. from a previous trek that you can draw from?
  • if you’re going with your partner then discuss with them how you can motivate and support each other in challenging situations
  • how will you cope when things don’t go to plan? For example your flights are delayed, or you can’t complete your trek (like our Mera Peak trip). That is a real mental challenge to get over. Sometimes you just have to live through it and accept it, learn from it and try again another day. The mountains will always be there.
  • Read our post on Discovering Your Resilience.
  • watch rock climber Tommy Caldwell’s TedTalk for a good example of resilience and endurance.
build mental toughness for your trek - for females

12. If you’re female, a few more tips

  • going to the toilet is just not as easy as it is for guys. So be prepared to go behind a bush, or to use a different style of toilet than you’re used to e.g. squat toilet or long drop
  • take your own supplies – in your daypack as well as kitbag – so that you’re never without e.g. toilet paper, wet wipes, hand sanitiser, sanitary items
  • if you’re camping in cold conditions you may also need to use a pee bottle in your tent. I cannot recommend enough that you practice your technique at home. Don’t leave it  until your trek to discover it’s not that easy – more stress!! Find a suitable size and shape of container – ideally a plastic screwtop at least one litre if not two. You could also use a GoGirl or Shewee as a funnel but this takes some practice!
  • another hassle on a trek is monthly cycles. If they can’t be avoided then just be prepared, practice good hygiene, and dispose of used sanitary items carefully e.g. to reduce odour wrap them in tinfoil before putting them in a plastic rubbish bag.
  • If you’re trekking at high altitude then also be aware that your cycle may not return to normal for 2-3 months afterwards. My guess it that it’s partly due to altitude and perhaps also due to malnourishment and the stresses that your body is under on a long trek.

So there you go – I hope this helps you to mentally prepare, build mental toughness and reduce stress for your next trek. You might also like to read our other posts on self-discovery.

Emma

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Nepal: Mera Peak – adversity and resilience

Published February 2017 by Trevor. Updated February 2022.

Mera Peak Mountaineering Expedition, Nepal (6,476m). Handling adversity and resilience when things don’t go according to plan.

Mera Peak

They say don’t sweat the small stuff – well, I should have reminded myself of that!

Sometimes we forget that being mentally prepared for an expedition is just as important as the physical. We thought we had prepared ourselves physically. Gym, trails, hills – lots of hills, back in the gym, weights. Even spending time training in an altitude room – well you get the drift. As it turned out, we weren’t as nearly mentally prepared as we thought we were. Regardless of whether you are running a marathon or undertaking an expedition, there’s one thing to keep in mind. 80% of it is mental and 20% is physical (metaphorically speaking). When the going gets tough, your mind will start playing tricks with you. You will want you to give up before your body does. More on that later.

Kathmandu streets

Kathmandu

On Day 1, we landed in Kathmandu (1,400m) from Sydney via Singapore, ready for our expedition to summit Mera Peak (6,476m). The next day we set off early from our hotel for the 30 minute, hair-raising flight to Lukla (2,840m) with our UK-based expedition leader, an accomplished mountaineer and now Everest summiteer. The members of the expedition team, aside from the sherpa, cooks and porters, consisted of four people from the UK, a Swede, Kiwi and an Aussie. Naturally rugby came up as a topic of conversation. Coming from Australia, I kept very quiet on this front!

Now, I’m not overly superstitious. On the previous day in Kathmandu while shopping around for some extra gear, my partner tripped and fell into one of the numerous gutters around Thamel – the first sign of things to come. Then on the trail, we accidentally walked around some of the mani stones the wrong way (Buddhists walk around in a clock wise direction which non-Buddhists also do for both respect and good luck). I also broke one of my boot laces (yes, I carried spares in case you wondered) and with no blessing from the local Lama as it was too early in the expedition for that.  With all that happening, things were bound to go a tad awry, and they did – that mental thing again!

Snowy trail to Mera Peak
Campsite at Khula Kharka

Leaving Lukla

Once we arrived into Lukla, sorted our kit and met our porters, we set off up through the Hinku Valley. Taking the long way around to aid in acclimatisation, we slowly tackled the ‘Nepali flats’. A very happy bunch we were.

The days were great for trekking – clear skies, warm and humid – and the views of the surrounding peaks were glorious. After a few nights camping under the stars, playing ‘Shit Head’ (a card game), and singing out of tune, it all then turned pear-shaped for us.  My partner started to develop symptoms of AMS (acute mountain sickness) and I injured my quad muscle, causing my leg to swell up like a balloon just above the knee. With the Sherpa’s now carrying our day packs, despite our constant assurances that we were still capable, coupled with tent-living, leeches and having to resort to ablutions in the tent (due to some inclement weather) – well all those ‘small’ things finally got to us ‘mentally’. By this time and after five more days, we had managed to make our way up to Khula Kharka (4,120m).

Evacuation

The following day the plan was to trek to Khote, which was a 640m descent in total (including the ups and downs). As it would have been a few more days to reach another suitable site for possible helicopter medical evacuation, a mutual decision was made to evacuate. Dreams were shattered, tears were shed (coping with failure is never easy), some gear including our snacks redistributed to the remaining team (read, grab all you can if it’s free!)

Now at Khola Kharka, we were evacuated by helicopter back to a hospital to be checked out in Kathmandu. Or so we thought.

Medivac

The helicopter pilot eventually found the landing zone that was ably cleared by our Sherpas, and after several attempts to find us – the pilot was Swiss and very new to Nepal – the helicopter landed. We literally jumped in with our bags, gave the thumbs up (talking here of no more than 20 seconds) and off we went. What had taken us five days to get to this point took us approximately 10 minutes to land back at Lukla. We had a quick refuelling stop to enable the helicopter to evacuate some other mountain climbers and following a quick snack at Paradise Lodge, the plan was then to head back to Kathmandu (stay with me on this).

Cyclone

We didn’t know it at the time, but all this was happening around the same time other med-evacs were taking place due to an unseasonal, and severe tropical cyclone that hit the Bay of Bengal (Cyclone Hudhud).  This tragically impacted on trekkers undertaking the Annapurna Circuit and climbers on other surrounding mountains around Nepal (snow, ice and an avalanche on Mt Dhaulagiri), leading to a significant loss of lives of over 43 trekkers and guides.

Hudhud has been the only cyclone whose remnant ever reached as far north as the Himalayas. We were lucky given the area we were in as we only caught the tail end of the storm, but compared to those people it was nothing.

Heading back to Kathmandu

Upon returning to Lukla with the rescued and dishevelled climbers, our Swiss pilot summoned us from the lodge and along with the others, we lifted off for the 50 minute trip back to Kathmandu. I’ve landed and taken off from Lukla seven times now and have only once managed to land by plane due to weather – perhaps there is a theme running here! The cloud had been building up all day as is typical for this time of the year so with light fading, we lifted off. We had only been in the air for around 15 minutes and with the sun setting in our eyes and cloud fast closing in, the pilot began to circle around and continue to stare down at his GPS to obtain a fix.

Helicopter from Lukla

Now, I wouldn’t naturally worry at this point. I’ve clocked up many air miles and encountered my fair share of turbulence, go around’s with near zero visibility and some hairy landings. However, this is the first time that my heart began to beat more than usual, especially when I caught site of a snowy mountain cliff around 30 metres away. I knew this was not looking good. So when the pilot turned around, apart from feeling very relieved, I knew we were going to spend the night back in Lukla.  Even more importantly though, live to fly another day.

After landing, the pilot turned off the rotor blades and the engine stopped whirling. With the Swiss pilot taking off his helmet, he turned around. In the strongest Swiss accent, he said (I kid you not), “hope you understand why I decided to turn around. Safety for my passengers is paramount”! No argument from me on that front Sir!!

Next morning at first daylight, we took the helicopter back to Kathmandu with the same pilot. After the customary handshakes and a nod to our fellow passengers, it was off to the local medical clinic to get checked out and return to the hotel where our journey began a week earlier. For now, climbing Mera Peak will have to wait!

Footnote: We didn’t know it at the time. Given the extra days up our sleeve due to an early end to our planned trip, enabled us to have a spare three-four days to explore the Kathmandu valley in its entirety and thus see many UNESCO sites. Of course, we now know an earthquake struck Nepal on the 25th April, 2015. This badly damaged infrastructure and tragically led to a high loss of life – both in Kathmandu and outlying areas. The Everest climbing season that year was also cancelled as a result.

Insights

  • Take the time to mentally prepare as well as physically.
  • Hope for the best, plan for the worst.
  • There are several international and local Nepalese based trekking and expedition companies that I would recommend. We did this trip with a company based out of the UK.
  • Ensure you have the appropriate level of travel or rescue insurance (check out the exclusions). For example, if you’re trekking above a certain altitude, roped up or mountaineering.
  • Remember, ‘Caveat Emptor’ – buyer beware! You get what you pay for, especially when something goes wrong. Make sure you thoroughly check out your expedition or trekking company as well as the leader.
  • Ask questions, such as – Do you carry a satellite phone for communications? How can I avoid AMS? If you are planning on going to altitude, do they carry a Gamow bag? What is their success rate? When is the best time to go? Has the leader led this expedition or trek before? Are they trained in Wilderness Medicine? How many people are on the trip? What is the average age of your group? Do they have a suggested kit list? Will they help you source any extra gear that you require for the trip? What do I need to carry in my daypack? Is there a baggage weight limit? How do I best prepare/train for this trip? How fit do I have to be? What is the skill level required? If climbing, climber to guide ratio? Tent based or lodge based trip? Do you need to share (most pricing is based on twin share)? Is water for drinking included in the price or do I need to buy my own? What is the standard of meals on the expedition? What are the visa requirements?
  • Read how to get to Kathmandu

Would I do this expedition again?

Absolutely, but with a lot more mental toughness to boot (no pun intended). Adversity builds resilience – how you handle adversity and what you learn from that. Stay focused and don’t sweat the small things. The ‘summit’ and the interesting people you meet along the way is an added bonus. Trekking with a future Everest mountaineer and gaining amazing Facebook friends for life is not to bad either. Oh, and I nearly forgot – find a Lama for a blessing!

Onwards and upwards!

Trevor

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